A View of the World
Underneath every symptom lies a craving for love and the forgotten truth that we are love itself
We believe our happiness and well-being depend on the outer world, but this is an illusion. Love, happiness, joy, and euphoria are an inside job. I have seen hundreds of clients with every kind of symptom. Always, underneath all symptoms, there is a craving for love.
But why do we choose to crave for love rather than be love and overcome our limitations? Because by doing so, we feel an illusion of security. It is safer to crave for love from familiar people such as parents, siblings, peers, teachers, classmates, spouse, colleagues, or children than to strive for the experience of being love.
Accepting the experience of being love means responsibility. If you stop blaming others for your misfortune, you step into the unknown. You allow yourself to dissolve the ego in the vast cosmic ocean of love—and that brings fear: fear of the ocean of love that lies within each of us.
Because the only thing we are fundamentally afraid of is our love, our light, our power. So most people choose not to be love and happiness, even though that is their subconscious desire, because unhappiness is familiar and seems like a safer state.
Belief of Separation
Our reluctance to step into love is sustained by the belief, reinforced by our senses, that we are separate beings, cut off from each other and from divine love, which we perceive as existing somewhere outside us.
But this sense of separation is an illusion — meaning it is a perception of reality, not reality itself. This illusion, however, produces fear, guilt, and hostility, and fuels the need for supremacy. It is the cause of all division (religious, ethnic, and social) and the root of conflict and constant chaos in the world.
Our belief in separation makes it easy to project our internal turmoil and suffering onto others and remain in constant conflict. Parents project their problems and desires onto their children, social groups project onto other groups, nations accuse other nations—the list is endless.
Why do we choose, then, to project our turmoil onto others and avoid self-reflection? Because it is far easier to believe that someone else is the abuser and fight them than to look within ourselves. Or rather: what we haven’t dealt with inside, we end up seeing in others.
But as many scientists have told us, separation is impossible—which means that what we perceive as “other” is not fundamentally separate from us. This implies that my enemy is also a part of me. This means that if I am violent toward my enemy, I am also violent toward myself.
This does not mean that I condone aggressive or hostile behavior toward me. It simply means that the more ignorance exists on both sides, the more chaos and violence will arise.
The only thing that is missing from humanity is awakening from the illusion of separation.
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